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Because I am forgiven, death has lost its sting…

An Eternal Sleep

I lay on my bed one night tumultuously struggling with thoughts of death.  My emotions are overwhelmed with the terror of not being able to escape such a dreadful fate.  I pull the covers over my head wishing I could find some refuge but my fear only grows in intensity.  As I toss from side to side I cannot stop myself from trembling and crying.  In my mind and in my spirit I keep saying, “I don’t want to die; I don’t want to die” but my thoughts are oppressive and keep me terrorized with fear.

Then calm overtakes me as likened to when clouds roll back and you feel the warmth of the summer sun light brush your face with a cool accompanying breeze.  I hear the voice of the Lord speak softly to my spirit.  He says I am His child because I have accepted Jesus Christ as my personal Savior and Lord and I belong to Him.  He says He loves me and has forgiven me of all my sins and is always with me.  He tells me how His unfailing love has been graciously preparing me for the very moment that I find myself so fearful.  He reminds thatI have practiced all my life for the very moment when I will physically die and He assures me that I have become well versed in the process.  It is called falling asleep.

Peacefully, every night of my life I have rehearsed my grand exit from this world.  As I fall asleep each night I cannot recall exactly when I lose consciousness and fall into a state of sleep.  How peaceful those moments are; how unafraid I am of falling asleep at those times.  The Lord reminds me that that is exactly what is going to happen to me when I physically die.  He says “I am going to go to sleep one more time, then when I awake, because I belong to Him, I will wake up to find myself with Him in paradise for eternity.”

People will have an experience of thinking about death at some point in their lives.  For some it will come when they are small children.  For others it will come when an event has threatened their life.  Some might witness a loved one die right before their eyes.  Regardless of the circumstance, people are destined to confront their mortality.

Death is a reality.  Death was never in God’s original design for man.  Man’s sin brought consequences of physical death from this world and spiritual death from God.  Death affects the human spirit.  It separates the human spirit from the presence of God and from the physical bodyAdam and Eve brought a curse on all humanity in the Garden of Eden when they sinned against God.  As a result, everyone’s spirit is separated from the presence of God at birth.  Everyone is spiritually dead at birth.  In addition, everyone will physically die.  Everyone will experience a separation of their spirit from their physical body at the end of their life.  Both of these deaths are a reality we all must face.

Unless you have knowledge concerning your human spirit, the thought of death creates anxiety, fear and trepidation. Unless you have knowledge of God’s love for you and what He has done to resolve the dilemma of your human spirit, the thought of death stings your very soul.

Scripture identifies two resting places for the human spirit when physical death comes.  One for those who are reunited with the presence of God through rebirth and the other for those who remain separated from the presence of God through the rejection of Jesus Christ.  The location of the former is the bosom of Abraham; the location of the latter is Hell.

You see, man cannot change the reality of his physical death; the separation of his human spirit from his physical body.  But he can change the reality of his separation from the presence of God.  By believing in Jesus Christ’s death as the propitiation for man in satisfying God’s judgment for Adam’s sin and by believing in Jesus Christ’s resurrection as God’s justification for man, a provision is given to man that resolves his separation from the presence of God.  The provision is a manifestation of God’s grace. The provision is a gift of God.  It is salvation.  The provision is Jesus Christ.

Accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior brings you into perfect fellowship with God.  It answers the question, which resting place will my spirit go to when it is separated from my physical body.  It will go to the bosom of Abraham.  Positioned to receive a new body that will never be separated from God but united with God eternally.

1Corinthians 15:50-57 (NASB) says:

Now I say this, brethren, that flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God; nor does the perishable inherit the imperishable.  Behold, I tell you a mystery; we shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed, in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet; for the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised imperishable, and we shall be changed.

For this imperishable must put on the imperishable, and this mortal must put on immortality.  But when this perishable will have put on the imperishable, and this mortal will have put on immortality, then will come about the saying that is written, “Death is swallowed up in victory.  O Death, where is your victory? O Death, where is your sting?”

The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law; but thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.

Therefore, if you have accepted Jesus Christ, you can continue your “dress rehearsals” with a peace that surpasses all human understanding.  You never again will have to become fearful about death.

Exerpt from Kingdom Language-Volume One, © 2007 by Kirk E. Hillman, Xulon Press, ISBN 978-1-60477-264-7
 

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Is your repentance true or false?

When someone lets you know that you have offended them in some way, how does that make you feel?  Do you get feelings of sorrow because of what they say you did to them? Most people would answer this in the affirmative; they truly are sorry for hurting someone.  BUT, here is the crucial question you must consider:  Have you repented of what you did? 

Most people understand repentance from its mental aspect.  That is, making the decision to “turn away” or ”turn from” a particular behavior or pattern of thought.  This is the foundational platform that repentance rests on, but it is not the ratifier of your decision.   What is needed is proof or “fruit” of your repentance.  You see, anyone can “SAY” they repent but the “proof is found in the pudding”;  what they “DO” is the evidence that repentance has occurred.   

Therefore, true repentance is evidenced by that particular behavior or pattern of thought never being seen again with respect to the one you offended.  False repentance would mean that you continue to demonstrate it over and over again.  Consequently, repentance can only be affirmed ”over time” and never in “word” only.  How well do you do with repentance?

 

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21 Principles that will free you…

Forgiveness is a spiritual dynamic that affects the lives of every human being, but more so the lives of all born again believers in Jesus Christ.  Whether you find that you have been the victim of someone’s transgression or you are the one who transgressed someone else, youwill find that you will eventually have to deal with forgiveness at some point in your life. 

Take time and adopt some of these principles into your life and you will find that you can free yourself from bitterness and resentments you may be harboring:

  • Principle (1):      Make allowances for others’ faults.         Colossians 3:13
  • Principle (2):      You must always forgive.                       Luke 17:4
  • Principle (3):      Extend mercy to your offender.              Matthew 18:33
  • Principle (4):      God delights in showing mercy.             Micah 7:18b
  • Principle (5):      The Spirit of God is who directs you.      Galatians 5:17
  • Principle (6):      Don’t repay evil for evil.                          1Peter 3:9
  • Principle (7):      It’s not in you to continue sinning.          1John3:9
  • Principle (8):      Love covers a multitude of sins.             1Peter 4:8
  • Principle (9):      Forgiveness must come from the heart.  Matthew 18:35
  • Principle (10):    You decide your fate.                            Matthew 6:14,15
  • Principle (11):    Love God and man.                              1John 4:21
  • Principle (12):    Compassion rules the day.                    Luke 6:36
  • Principle (13):    Stand firm against the devil.                  James 4:7
  • Principle (14):    Any amount of faith works.                    Luke 17:6
  • Principle (15):    Do what is right.                                   Matthew 5:24
  • Principle (16):    Live to please Christ.                            Colossians 3:12, 13
  • Principle (17):    Duty calls.                                           Luke 17:9, 10
  • Principle (18):    God chooses to forget sin.                    Hebrews 10:17
  • Principle (19):    Live through the Holy Spirit.                  Galatians 5:25
  • Principle (20):    All sin opposes God.                            1John 3:4
  • Principle (21):    Confession must be made for sin.          1John 1:9
 

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For those who have an ear, let them listen to what the Spirit of the Lord says…

Christmas is the time of year when Christians remember and celebrate the birth of the Lord Jesus Christ. It is a remembrance of the beginning of the manifestation of Old Testament prophecy of the coming of the Messiah; the Savior of the world. It is a sacred time of reflection; a time of worship and praise of the faithfulness of the promises of God the Father. So, be careful.

Everywhere you look and listen (television, billboards, newspapers, internet, radio etc.), you see a different gospel being spoken of. It is a gospel that isn’t focused on the birth of Christ. It is a gospel of fulfulling personal desires and wants; of pleasing others; of commercialism. You have to look extemely long and hard if you want to find anything that speaks of Christ’s birth, life, death and resurrection; if you find it at all. Even our churches are moving away from this focus through the utilization of “non-traditional” Christmas plays. Be careful that you are not someone that would fall into this snare.

Our salvation from the wrath and condemnation of God is the reason for Christ’s birth. If He never was birthed into history, all would still be condemned to the lake of fire and the second death. But because He came, He provides a way for all to be saved from this punishment; for all to have a way to receive eternal forgiveness and have eternal life with the Godhead. This is what we are to be thankful for during Christmas. This is what needs to be remembered. This is what is meant by the saying “Christ is the reason for the season”. By the season it is meant when in human history Christ entered the realm of time; when He took on human flesh to complete the will of God the Father.

Be wise in how you govern yourself during this time of year. It is easy to fall victim to apostasy; to respond to a different “gospel message”, if you stop listening to the Spirit of the Lord who resides in you. Christ deserves your worship, praise, time, attention and gift during this time. Tell those who do not know Christ that the greatest gift they have to give is their life. This is more important than any gift they could give to anyone. Tell them to give their life to Christ; ask Him to come into their heart and be their Lord and Savior.

For those who have an ear, listen to what the Spirit of the Lord is saying to you…

 

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A promise to be fulfilled…

Isaiah 61:1 contains a promise for all who are brokenhearted.  The promise is that Jesus Christ is anointed, appointed and sent to heal your broken heart. 

This is a wonderful, hope-filled promise that so many Christians let slip by when they are offended by someone.  Instead of them allowing Christ to invoke his blessing of healing upon them, they fall victim to the desires of their flesh and waddle in anger, rage, and a desire for revenge and payback.  They let bitterness and resentment build a wall between them and their offender which keeps them in the shackles of an unforgiving spirit.

For those of you out there who have an ear that is sensitive to Jesus’ voice, let them hear and act accordingly.  Cast your care upon Him and let Him fulfill His promise to you.  Honor Him in that way and free your heart from the shackles of unforgiveness.

 

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The battle is more real than you think…

To forgive someone is an act of your will.  It is releasing someone from the guilt of the offense they did to you and bringing restoration.  But before one can come to this point of resolve, one must overcome the battle that rages inside of themselves.  The battle is with their flesh; for the flesh wants payback, revenge, justice and punishment to come upon the offender.  One must win this battle in order to succeed in the area of forgiveness. 

Understand, your flesh “talks” to you very convincingly about keeping alive your resentment and anger.  Even though you plead the blood of Christ over your mind, thoughts and emotions, the flesh perseveres.  You can find yourself having a verbal debate with your flesh about what you should and should not do to your offender even when you have made up your mind to forgive that can go on for days at a time if you have not learned how to crucify your flesh.  You can find yourself cyclically going in and out of forgiving someone. 

So know that the battle is a real live battle that goes on in your mind.  But  also know the Lord has given you the means to defeat it.  In 2Corinthians 10:5 you are told that “we demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ”. 

You see, the battle is won by not allowing the thoughts of revenge, payback, punishment, etc. to run wild inside of your thinking, but to capture every one of them and make them obedient to what Christ has told you to do toward your offender.  He will bring those thoughts  into submission and you will find victory over them.  So don’t get frustrated if you find yourself battling with thoughts to forgive or not.  Follow 2Corinthians 10:5 and watch the Lord fight for you.

 

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Forgiveness is inevitable…

It really does not matter where you find yourself on the proverbial “coin of offense”; as the offender or the offended, you will inevitably have to deal with issues of forgiveness at some point in your life and the question is whether you will respond in the way the Lord has commanded you to.  You see the Lord knows that people have a proclivity to sin against one another so that means that no matter how much you try to avoid the issue it is impossible for you not to experience an offense or to avoid offending someone in your lifetime.

So, when you find yourself in that kind of situation how well do you do what the Lord has told you to do? 

If you offend someone how receptive are you at asking God to forgive you of your sin?  How receptive are you at repenting of your sin?  How receptive are you at seeking reconciliation from the one you have offended? 

Likewise if you are offended how receptive are you at asking the Lord to heal you of your hurt?  How well do you do with forgiving your offender? 

Well, the Lord has given us instructions to follow regardless of what side of the coin we find ourselves on.  He loves us so much that He does not leave us clueless as to how to respond if we offend someone or if we have been offended by someone. 

Listen to His instructions:

“So if you are presenting a sacrifice at the altar in the Temple and you suddenly remember that someone has something against you, leave your sacrifice there at the altar.  Go and be reconciled to that person.  Then come and offer your sacrifice to God.”  Matthew 5:23-24 NLT   (This is for someone who has offended someone).

“So watch yourselves.  If your brother sins against you, rebuke him, and if he repents, forgive him. If he sins against you seven times in a day and seven times comes back to you and says, ‘I repent’, forgive him.” Luke 17:3-4 NIV (This is for someone who has been offended by someone).

Now all that is left for us to do is to follow His instructions, no matter what side of the coin we find ourselves on.  You see, He has covered all the bases and we have no excuse to offer Him if we choose not to listen or follow His instructions other than we chose to be disobedient.   Selah

 

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Repentance is still needed in our daily lives…

This message might conflict with your theology but it is on point biblically.  Here’s the point:  Forgiveness rides on the heels of rebuke and repentance.

There is an interplay that has to happen in the life of the offender if he/she is ever going to be forgiven of an offense.  That interplay is between being rebuked and responding in repentance.

Rebuking someone is a “taboo” nowadays.  Many people feel it is a form of judging and therefore shy away from it.  Well, this only shows the extent of their illiteracy as it pertains to kingdom dynamics.  To rebuke is to criticize adversely or sharply.  It brings the person face to face with the wrongness of their words, actions or motivations and opens the door to conviction.

Without conviction concerning the wrongness of one’s actions there can be no desire to change.  No desire to repent.  Without conviction an offender could believe that their wrongful actions are fine and acceptable behaviors.  Conviction of conscience, mind and heart are what brings about change or repentance in the life of an offender.

Going a little further, this rebuking process happens on three different levels.  It can happen within the person’s conscience; it can come from the presence of the Holy Spirit residing in the person; or it can come from another person.  Regardless of where it originates from, it does go on, everyday, in every person.  Most people just don’t want to admit to it.

So, after being rebuked and having been convicted of wrongness the offender realizes that they have offended God first, not the person.  Why? Because any and all sins against our neighbors are violations of God’s commandment.  That being said, the offender repents to God initially.   He/she confesses their waywardness in this situation and asks to be forgiven of God.  According to 1John 1:9 we know that God will forgive the offender and purify him of all unrighteousness. 

The next thing for the offender to do is to address the person he offended.  This is where the command in Luke 17:3 comes into play:  …if thy brother trespass agaist thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him. (KJV

The last point that needs to be made is that man can only affirm what has already happened in heaven.  Forgiveness happens there first by God and then through the authority He has given to man (John 20:23) it is carried out here on earth.

So you see forgiveness happens only after repentance has occurred in the life of the offender; and that repentance is the change in moral reorientation of the soul where the offender acknowledges the error of his/her ways and turns toward the divinely prescribed wayof truth and righteousness of God.

 

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If the truth be told…

There are many people in the kingdom of God who front forgiveness.  They claim to have forgiven a person for an offense committed against them but still hold some kind of aught deep down inside.

Who are they trying to impress?  Why not just be truthful?  This kind of behavior only backfires in the end.

Remember the only person you have to please is Christ the Lord.  When you front you dishonor Him, not to mention the devastation it has on your character and integrity. 

Learn to fear the Lord and sincerely live life the way He commands.  Forgive from your heart and not your head.

 

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Lord, can you help me, please?

I wonder how people would feel if the Lord‘s answer to them was “no”.   Would they turn away from Him?  Argue with Him?  Get mad at Him?   I mean, most born again believers assume He will meet their every need, right?  I mean even Scripture tells them in Phillipians 4:19 (NIV) – And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus.  Then why is it when they are offended by someone who has truly wounded them deeply, they refuse to ask; hesitate to ask; or simply choose not to ask the Lord to help them get through it and heal?

When a person is offended, what is it that makes them become so insensitive to the Word of God to the point where they see the Bible as just a book with a lot of words that bring no relief into their situation?   What is it that makes an offended person PUSH the Lord away and WELCOME the sinful desires of a broken heart?  You know what I mean;  the desire to pay someone back;  to get revenge;  to hurt them; to slander their name;  or to become malicious and aggressive toward them.  

Many counselors will answer this question by saying it’s their “pride” that makes them do this but I think there’s another reason.  In fact, I know there is, and so do you, so  share your answer with me.  For you know you better than any counselor would.  What do you say is the reason you entertain sinful desires instead of asking the Lord to help you heal and get through the ordeal?  Tell me why you have such a hard time relying on your faith when you are offended?

The reality is that forgiveness is hard to give out when you are hurting emotionally.  The Lord knows this all to well that is why the Father has anointed Jesus with the power to heal the brokenhearted (Isa.61:1).  We are told in Psalm 55:22a(NIV) to cast your cares on the Lord and He will sustain you…, so why can’t you do this?  I believe it is because emotional hurt brings a person to a point of numbness; a numbness of the Spirit‘s presence in their life.  A time when room is given to the Adversary to activate the desires of their flesh; a time of vulnerability.

I believe hurt people ought to ask:  Lord, can you help me, please?  I believe hurt people ought to pay close attention to and guard themselves from their vulnerabilities to the Adversary.  I believe hurt people ought to faithfully rely on the promise of their Father to let Jesus heal their brokenhearts. 

You see, the work of forgiveness begins in brokenhearts and ends in healed hearts that stand ready to give forgiveness to the one who offended them.

 

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